So… I joined Fetlife about 2 years ago on the recommendation of a BDSM erotica author during a chat on Goodreads. And I got scared off almost immediately by all the people immediately asking to be my Dom. The answer is no if you ask right off the bat. But I’m finally logging back in because the importance of munches has been made very clear. I can’t do them when I’m home from school, but I can’t wait to meet some people once I’m back. In the meantime, I’m focusing on doing even more research so I can be a good submissive when I eventually find a Dom.