30 Days of D/s: Day 23

Drop is real: What goes up must come down. Subspace is the most common of the highs in D/s, but we know from experience that Dom or top space is real too. Which means sub and dom drop are real possibilities after you have intense kinky moments together. Drop won’t happen every time, and it won’t affect you the same way each time either. But it’s important to recognize what can cause it, and what it might feel like. You can’t eliminate it completely, but you can prepare for it.

Have you ever felt a drop after kinky play? Can you come up with some ways you might help yourself or your partner through it?

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I’ve never experienced sub drop yet (because I’ve never played before). However, similar to my expectation of experiencing sub space (I’m super sensitive to hormones), I expect I’ll be experiencing sub drop, too. Even in my vanilla life, I experience drop after a big social, family event. Because I struggle with depression, it’s super important I have ways to deal with drop. I think some methods should be aftercare (i.e. cuddling, eating and drinking), maybe watching a show or movie, or napping until I’m back to myself.

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