The D/s dynamic that works for you: We talk about D/s in very general terms as “Dominance and submission” but it can mean so much more. Are you into Caregiver/little (Daddy Dom, Mommy, littles, babygirl/boy)? Maybe Master/slave? Handler and puppy? Just like our kinks, our relationship can be anything we make of it. You can be a little of everything, depending on your mood, your partner, and what works for you right now in your life.
If you’re not sure what dynamic you want, this may be a good time to explore and think about your options. If you’re in a relationship right now, we encourage you to think of the other aspects of D/s that intrigue you and see if there’s a way you can explore that.
Like I said with D/s titles, I consider myself a “submissive.” I’m a bit of a little (no age regression) and I do want a Daddy. Simultaneously, I want a Master who can be caring (maybe that’s just want rather than a full-on Daddy Dom—I’m still trying to figure that part out). I, myself, aspire to be a slave, but that’s unrealistic right now as I’m in school and in a LDR. I think my dynamic may change as my life situation changes, and I’m okay with that.