Category: My Life

30 Days of D/s: Day 17

Finding your local community: We’re big champions of getting out into the local kink community. It’s not always possible for everyone, and sometimes the local community isn’t the right fit. But if you haven’t tried it yet, it’s definitely worth thinking about. You meet more people. You learn new things. And you spend time with […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 16

When real life interferes with your D/s: Yes, we know your D/s relationship is real life. Of course it is. But the rest of life sometimes interferes with the kinky fuckery you’d rather be having. Illness, death, finances – it all makes an impact on how much (if any) D or s is going on. […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 15

Maintaining D/s when you’re apart: Long distance relationships, trips without your partner, simply not living together – it all adds up to one thing: being D/s even when you’re not together. The solution you find for your relationship will be specific to you and to your circumstances, but if you’re already living through a long-distance […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 14

What kind of rules do you want? A Dominant may set the rules, but a submissive has to agree to them. Submissives may have an idea in their head what they need, but their Dominant might see another way of accomplishing the same goal. Rules are a part of the vast majority of D/s relationships […]

Q&A with the Girls of Pixie Heart Blog

Babe: What sort of Submissive are you? Slave, sub, baby girl, little, pet? I’m definitely a sub with some little and slave thrown in. It kind of depends on my mood at the time. Kitten: What are you studying at college and why did you choose that? I’m studying English Lit because I love to […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 13

How do you feel about pain? Let us be clear, in D/s, pain isn’t a requirement. You don’t have to be a masochist or a sadist to be D/s. But it’s always good to have an idea of where you stand on the subject. As a submissive, would you consent to a painful spanking as […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 12

Introducing D/s to Your Vanilla Relationship: Everyone is at a different point in life. Some people are married and happily kinky. Others are happily kinky but still single. And some find themselves thinking about kink while worrying about how to tell their vanilla partner. At some point, we can all find ourselves in a similar […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 11

What does consent mean to you? Most of us think of consent as a “Yes” or a “No” when it comes to sex. But really, whether in a vanilla or kinky relationship, there’s more to consent than that. Plus, some D/s relationships play with consensual non-consent. Some relationships have a rule that as long as […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 10

What is your safeword? Safewords are the words or phrases we use in a kinky scene or while having sex to stop everything. Some people don’t want a safeword. Here at Loving BDSM we strongly suggest them when you’re in a new relationship or trying a new kink, but they’re not the only way to […]

30 Days of D/s: Day 9

Let’s talk limits: Everyone has limits. Some are hard limits – things you refuse to do, and some are soft – you might do them under the right circumstances, with the right person, or at least once to try it. But we all have them. Do you know what your hard limits are? Are there […]

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