30 Days of submission: Day 16

Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person?Southern Sir’s Place Yes, absolutely. I am attracted to only men, but different people fit together differently in general, and that also […]

30 Days of submission: Day 15

Has your submission evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you? If not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future?Southern Sir’s Place I think that the longer I’m with a Dom and the more I trust him, the more control I’ll […]

30 Days of submission: Day 14

Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar?Southern Sir’s Place No personal bearing at all because I’m not religious. But I can definitely see where they would be similarities between […]

30 Days of submission: Day 13

Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this?Southern Sir’s Place Yes. I find it super hot and essential to my submission. The limit would be if I’m having a migraine or an awful menstrual period. […]

30 Days of submission: Day 12

Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general?Southern Sir’s Place Yes, but I’m not sure if […]

LovingBDSM & Freelancing

If you listen to the LovingBDSM podcast, you already know that I got a shoutout at the start of today’s episode (#95 “Aftercare”) because I designed the graphics for the podcast’s new merchandise (go buy it!). This is to say that I’m open to designing other projects (and they don’t all have to be graphic […]

30 Days of submission: Day 11

Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you?Southern Sir’s Place Absolutely. I define service as sexual, household, and other negotiated tasks and/or chores my […]

30 Days of submission: Day 10

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?Southern Sir’s Place I’m definitely into BDSM, and it is definitely core to my submission. […]

Phantom of the Opera & D/s

I mentioned some of the things that sexually awakened me when I was younger a little while ago. And The Phantom of the Opera was a show* I was obsessed with when I was 14. I think it was the grandness of it, but with Christine calling the Phantom “Master,” and lyrics like “I’ve already imagined our bodies entwining, defenseless and […]

30 Days of submission: Day 9

Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules, and limits as a part of your submission? How do you feel about them?Southern Sir’s Place I accept and expect structure, rules, and limits as part of my submission. I believe they are important ways for me to remain submissive at all times, and would also help improve […]

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