Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?Southern Sir’s Place Definitely increased as I’ve become more independent and examined my personality and needs. It became very strong when I went away to college for the first time, and
How socially connected is your submission? Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?Southern Sir’s Place I definitely look for others for support and networking. I’m part of some online
Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions, how does communication factor into your submission and how do you communicate your desires and needs?Southern Sir’s Place Communication is very important during the negotiation
What does trust mean to you in the context of submission?Southern Sir’s Place I believe it’s the essential foundation for any type of submission. More broadly, I believe it’s a necessity for every relationship: romantic, sexual, and platonic.
Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person?Southern Sir’s Place Yes, absolutely. I am attracted to only men, but different people fit together differently in general, and that also
Has your submission evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you? If not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future?Southern Sir’s Place I think that the longer I’m with a Dom and the more I trust him, the more control I’ll
Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar?Southern Sir’s Place No personal bearing at all because I’m not religious. But I can definitely see where they would be similarities between
Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this?Southern Sir’s Place Yes. I find it super hot and essential to my submission. The limit would be if I’m having a migraine or an awful menstrual period.
Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general?Southern Sir’s Place Yes, but I’m not sure if
Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you?Southern Sir’s Place Absolutely. I define service as sexual, household, and other negotiated tasks and/or chores my