Tag: bdsm

30 Days of D/s: Day 10

What is your safeword? Safewords are the words or phrases we use in a kinky scene or while having sex to stop everything. Some people don’t want a safeword. Here at Loving BDSM we strongly suggest them when you’re in a new relationship or trying a new kink, but they’re not the only way to […]

Collars

7/29/17 I’m someone who is very thorough when it comes to research. It’s my Type A personality. I did spend 5 years researching and stewing before I got my first tattoo. And another 2 before my second one. With BDSM, I “jumped in” faster (I joined sites the same year I “discovered” BDSM), but I […]

As Kinky as You Wanna Be by Shanna Germain

As Kinky as You Wanna BeShanna GermainCleis PressNovember 24, 2014Kindle242Amazon☆☆☆☆☆As Kinky as You Wanna Be is not an instruction book. It won’t teach you how to tie up your squirming lover or choose the proper lube.Rather, it teaches you how to be a kinky person who has safe, sane, and smart experiences. Like a tourist’s […]

30 Days of submission: Day 10

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?Southern Sir’s Place I’m definitely into BDSM, and it is definitely core to my submission. […]

Phantom of the Opera & D/s

I mentioned some of the things that sexually awakened me when I was younger a little while ago. And The Phantom of the Opera was a show* I was obsessed with when I was 14. I think it was the grandness of it, but with Christine calling the Phantom “Master,” and lyrics like “I’ve already imagined our bodies entwining, defenseless and […]

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The Loving DominantJohn and Libby WarrenGreenery PressSeptember 11, 2013Kindle292Amazon☆☆☆☆☆Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 40,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submission. Now John and Libby Warren, two of the scene’s most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of practitioners. Includes an all-new chapter on […]

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

The Ultimate Guide to KinkTristan TaorminoCleis PressMarch 1, 2012eBook466☆☆☆☆☆The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation—a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse […]

30 Days of submission: Day 5

Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different?Southern Sir’s Place This is new to me, but I did have one short online D/s relationship that I ended when […]

30 Days of submission: Day 1

I found these questions online on one of my favorite BDSM blogger’s sites, and figured I’d give it a try since I need to fill this blog with some stuff. Do you view your submission as: Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, DD/lg; or some other description or combination?Southern Sir’s Place I view my […]

Tasks for Submissives

I’ve been reading a lot about tasks for submissives, and I honestly can’t wait to do a lot of them. I’ll also highly recommend the Loving BDSM podcast on the topic (and just in general—I binged 16 episodes today). Submissives: What are your favorite tasks to do? Dominants: What are your favorite tasks to give? […]

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