Tag: kinks

My Evolving Kinks

  If you’ve been a long-time follower of my blog, you know that I’ve been trying to find a comprehensive list of kinks almost from the very beginning of my kink exploration. Last night, I finally decided to take matters into my own hands: I spent all of last night compiling 6 different kink checklists…

30 Days of D/s: Day 28

Exploring your kinks together: D/s is a power exchange relationship. It’s a kink, but it’s not all the kinks out there. In your D/s relationship, in order to keep it healthy and vibrant, you’ve both got to grow – together. Part of this might be in exploring your kinks together. Today, if you’re in a…

30 Days of D/s: Day 20

Sexual availability: In some D/s relationships (including ours), there is an agreement that the submissive will always be sexually available to their Dominant. While this can be a kinky, sexy aspect of a relationship, it always requires a great deal of trust from the submissive and responsibility from the Dominant. What do you think? Does…

30 Days of D/s: Day 19

What do you think about orgasm control? Orgasm control encompasses a lot of different play. Begging for permission, denial, edging, forced orgasms, and even coming on command – there’s a lot there. Some people (like us) say, “We want it all!” And others only like certain parts of orgasm control. If you don’t like the…

30 Days of D/s: Day 4

Negotiation is a fancy word for talking about your D/s relationship: People read the word “negotiation” and imagine some sort of back and forth thing around a table in a formal way. It can be that, sure, but mostly it’s just the conversation you have to figure out what kind of D/s relationship you want…

30 Days of submission: Day 29

Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it?Southern Sir’s Place Yes they are. I don’t love the idea of either, but spankings…