Tag: rules

Collars

7/29/17 I’m someone who is very thorough when it comes to research. It’s my Type A personality. I did spend 5 years researching and stewing before I got my first tattoo. And another 2 before my second one. With BDSM, I “jumped in” faster (I joined sites the same year I “discovered” BDSM), but I…

30 Days of D/s: Day 4

Negotiation is a fancy word for talking about your D/s relationship: People read the word “negotiation” and imagine some sort of back and forth thing around a table in a formal way. It can be that, sure, but mostly it’s just the conversation you have to figure out what kind of D/s relationship you want…

30 Days of submission: Day 9

Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules, and limits as a part of your submission? How do you feel about them?Southern Sir’s Place I accept and expect structure, rules, and limits as part of my submission. I believe they are important ways for me to remain submissive at all times, and would also help improve…