Tag: submission

My Training Continues

For the past 2 weekends, the Dom I’m seeing (who has inspired all my recent hypnosis stories) surprised me by first coming into the city and then inviting me to visit him for this past weekend. And it was glorious. When he messaged me with an impromptu invitation to visit, I actually squealed out loud. I clearly let…

A Night on the Town

The following is a real ​story (for a change): He surprised me at our meet-up spot, and we spent some time walking around Times Square and taking the subway to different stores to find me my first stuffie (which he was generous enough to get for me). And while at first, he only held my hand, and…

30 Days of D/s: Day 27

Being D/s and Being Parents: There’s still a pervasive myth out there that if you have kids you’re not allowed to be kinky or that it’s impossible. Of course you’re allowed to be kinky and as parents ourselves, we can promise it’s definitely possible. Just like anything with parenting, you’ve got to learn to be…

30 Days of D/s: Day 26

Figuring out your tasks and rituals: Much like rules and other negotiated parts of your D/s relationship, you may want to incorporate tasks and rituals. Rules dictate behavior: behave this way, don’t do that, always do this. Tasks and rituals are often things you do for your partner or as a way to bring yourself…

30 Days of D/s: Day 24

When a D/s relationship ends: We sincerely hope that whatever good, healthy D/s relationship you find yourself in never ends or doesn’t end on bad terms. But the reality is that, for at least some people, they’re going to experience a D/s break-up at some point. For submissives, it can be particularly hard as you’ve…

30 Days of D/s: Day 22

Not everyone will go to space: Subspace or top/dom space isn’t a guarantee every time you get kinky or in every D/s relationship. The feeling comes from the endorphins, dopamine, and other feel good chemicals our brain produces in a really intense scene. Submissives report feeling floaty while many Dominants say it gives them hyper…

30 Days of D/s: Day 2

What does submission mean to you? Does a submissive have certain behaviors? Do submissives do specific tasks? When you think of a submissive and submission, what thoughts come to mind?Loving BDSM Absolutely. The “certain behaviors” and “specific tasks” obviously depend on the submissive and Dominant’s relationship in question. When I think of a submissive and…