Tag: submission

30 Days of submission: Day 27

Do you have submissive desires or fantasies that you have yet to be able to explore? Do some of your desires confuse or frighten you? Do they excite you?Southern Sir’s Place I haven’t been able to explore any of them yet. Some frighten me (like rape play and choking), but they all excite me.

30 Days of submission: Day 25

Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals?Southern Sir’s Place Items like sex toys and my journal, and rituals such as “good morning” and “good night” messages help…

30 Days of submission: Day 24

What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? What feelings do they inspire?Southern Sir’s Place I would say all of my sexual feelings and pride at following instructions are the most direct emotional connections to my submission. When I’m feeling overwhelmed I also wish I could submit, so I guess that counts,…

30 Days of submission: Day 23

Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?Southern Sir’s Place I was definitely resistant when I was younger. I had the idea that submission was weak and my feminist personality…

30 Days of submission: Day 22

Can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings?Southern Sir’s Place My life doesn’t exactly have room for me to feel submissive if I don’t have a partner to submit to. That being said, I still feel…

30 Days of submission: Day 20

Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?Southern Sir’s Place Definitely increased as I’ve become more independent and examined my personality and needs. It became very strong when I went away to college for the first time, and…

30 Days of submission: Day 19

How socially connected is your submission? Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online?Southern Sir’s Place I definitely look for others for support and networking. I’m part of some online…

30 Days of submission: Day 18

Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions, how does communication factor into your submission and how do you communicate your desires and needs?Southern Sir’s Place Communication is very important during the negotiation…

30 Days of submission: Day 17

What does trust mean to you in the context of submission?Southern Sir’s Place I believe it’s the essential foundation for any type of submission. More broadly, I believe it’s a necessity for every relationship: romantic, sexual, and platonic.